It’s been exactly one year since I resigned from my job. Even though I worked in Kerala (India) for around 4 years, I didn’t save anything because the salary there was very low. With enough job experience, I flew to Qatar and got a job with a prestigious company (a subsidiary in a different field). I handled around 5 company accounts at the same time, which I felt was invaluable.
I resigned from my job with a good amount of savings in the bank. Over the past year, I’ve experienced many incidents that I can’t forget. I spent one month in Singapore twice for a job hunt, attended two Guinness events (both during that one month in UAE), and went on a car trip through Indian states and Nepal for around 20 days. After all of that, the only thing left was the cost of the ticket to travel to Qatar.
was busy with trip preparation. New #BlogTopic– Is there rats in Indian Airport? She asked! Listen or Read blog -> https://t.co/0ZYSN33h2e pic.twitter.com/adfkwyLIK4
— Niyaz Kannanchery (@niyazsky) October 9, 2016
Came Sharjah (Industrial Area 3) to buy these items for #GiantCycle. he said | read here -> https://t.co/AeyADkWeys pic.twitter.com/M6LDB1DozO
— Niyaz Kannanchery (@niyazsky) November 27, 2016
Now I am here in Qatar (since 24-Dec-2016). You can guess what I have remaining. I don’t regret anything in my life because all my decisions have been my own. I’ve never allowed anyone to interfere in them, though I seek advice when needed.
Looking back on my life, I was behind in achieving some dreams, but it seems I failed in front of others, not in my own eyes. I believe I’m a very lucky person. I have made great friends during all my travels, created beautiful memories, and gained valuable experiences.
I wasn’t like this before. My whole life changed when I left for Bangalore to pursue my studies. I sacrificed one year of my life just to get permission from my parents. I still remember many people telling my parents why they let me go so far for my degree. Keralites understand the reasoning behind those comments, but I was changing, learning many qualities along the way. Those who complained never knew the treasures I gained. Even just last month, I heard from some people, “Niyaz has changed a lot.” Those who knew the old and the new me saw the transformation.
The internet era was another key factor. I was a passionate gamer when I got my first computer in 2005. Back then, I spent my time searching for cheat codes for games like GTA and Commandos. After two years, I lost complete interest in gaming and started learning HTML, video editing, and more. I self-taught a lot of it through the internet, and it was great that I started this in school.
Like any human being, I’ve had a disappointing attitude at times, but I overcame it and began to see the positive side of everything. If you look closely, you can find something good in every situation. I don’t expect help from others. Some people have told me, “If you ever need help, just call me,” but I just smile and say thank you, then keep my distance. I always make sure I’m not a disturbance to others because people’s minds are unpredictable (important lesson from a commerce student :D). For me, relationships are always precious. But I also make sure that if someone asks for help or advice, I give it. If I can’t help directly, I try to point them in the right direction. Otherwise, my mind is disturbed until they get the help they need. I find happiness in serving others with my knowledge.
As I said, the internet has had a huge impact on me. I’ve gotten into the habit of watching motivational videos—listening to them wherever I go. Whether I’m traveling to work, exercising, or even going to sleep, they are with me. I’ve built a great collection on my mobile from various downloads over time. Watching them has made me see life from a different perspective. I believe life is for experimenting with things. Knowledge and qualifications always provide some level of confidence. We are all dealing with people, and sometimes we face rejection, but there are always plenty of options on this earth.
I’m thankful to the people who’ve worked with me, dealt with me, and stayed with me, as I’ve learned new things from them. I always try to calm my mind by listening to music, eating ice cream, or sitting alone by the seashore. I never hold hatred towards others. I don’t worry about what others are doing with their lives because it’s their choice and their freedom to live as they wish. It doesn’t matter to me as long as it doesn’t affect my life.
Some people come to me with negative thoughts, and now I avoid them or change the topic. I believe negative thinking doesn’t lead to any progress in life. We can achieve anything in this world if we continue trying with passion. Nothing comes to us without effort. Paulo Coelho’s words are not just fascinating—they are 100% true: “When you want something, the entire universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.”
by Niyaz Kannanchery
